L.A.D.I.E.S ToooT W.O.M.E.N

imma transforming from a lady to a woman

yoohoo~!!

should i felt excited with it??

i don't think so

the process that a lady getting with an age that start with 2* was very 'scary'

maybe u won't think so

but enjoying the transforming process sumtimes too

read a phrase from WeiBo few days ago

【女孩子要记住的事情】

1.喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送。

2.可以淘便宜的衣服，但记得自己的品位比这个价位高。

3.在QQ，手机里删除前男友 的号码，避免神经脆弱的时候主动找他。

4.减肥是为了更美好的人生。要是因为减肥而失去了生活的乐趣，不如放弃。

5.注重内心，但不忽略外表。

and i post one of it on FB and get hot response and like

 

~喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送~

❤ ❤ my favorite❤ ❤ 

 actually there is a fact that lady/woman always think it's right

"女人用男人钱是天经地义的"

--A woman is perfectly justified to use the money of men--

but i think women should wake up from this

of course sometime i also hope my Bf will gift me these or those

or my dad buy sumthing for me

but sometimes when u really saw what u like or u want 

don't u think that they also maybe saw what they like or want

and they maybe save those money just to buy something u like or want

it's unfair right?

i saw some of them maybe did not work to gain what they like and just wait for their Bf/Hubby/Daddy work to buy for them

Don't u think guy also is a human??

They work so hard due to some reason maybe their family or maybe to buy something they ❤

but just cause of 1 word "I LIKE THIS!!I DON'T CARE!!"

then he have to use all his savings to spend on you

don't u think its too cruel??

*of course this situation may different if he volunteer himself to buy it for u*

since i was Form 6

i seldom ask my dad to buy anythg for me

even my hp

i also work n save my own money to buy it myself

2 of my hp that i used before i use my own money to buy it

n even my clothes n skincare products

except tuition fees and sumtimes my dad may give me some pocket money for car fuel fees n others

i oni will ask money from my dad when my bank account really nothing left

during my uni life

i also try never ask for money for 1 year 

i just use ptptn and my own savings

cause i know my dad really burden too much for this family

of course he know sumtimes and oso volunteer sum for me e.g Sabah trip

for me

a woman must know how to earn money independently

i remember my uncle told me before

"It's okay if u r big expenser if you know how to earn bac those money that u spent"

my dad is a big expenser

he told me at least my dad knew how to get bac money after he spent

i never forget this and i take my dad as a role model for me

as i listen many excuses that 

im still a student!!

but did u think for ur parents n family before??

its ord vy burden to sent u to school

n..did u study every day??

no right?? den y dun use ur weekend or holidays to work??

i can't find any work!!

izzit u cant find any work or u too choosy or it's oni an excuse for u??

i gotta rich Bf!!

izzit ur Bf is ur husband yet??

no..rite??

izzit he dun have his own family??

instead to give u money to spend don't u think its more reasonable that he give what he earn for his own mum??

and what if at the end both of u dun have a happy ending??

but he ord bought an iphone, dslr, jewelery for u??

dont u felt ashamed?

of course sometimes i think to find these excuses for myself too

but

i really felt embarrassing n even now i ord 22

so....

ladies....remember this

~喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送~

 ~注重内心，但不忽略外表~

 every girl will like themselves to be pretty of corse

sometime i heard 

“我不爱美的咯”

“我不喜欢打扮的”

every time i heard this

  the first word muttering in my heart:"FAKE!!"

ya..maybe some of you dun like to make up

but i vy sure that some of u will buy sum pretty clothes for urself

or maybe put some colors on ur nails

or maybe buy some skin products and do facial

even a guy hope to be handsome

den how about a girl??

Appearance is ur image

reality : Others will judge you from ur appearance during ur first meet

it is true~it is fact!!

every of my frenz know that im vy 'ai mei' haha

maybe influenced by my leng mummy

i ❤ pretty clothes

i ❤ fair n smooth skin

i ❤ put a light make up on my face

i ❤ high heel

i ❤ wear contact lens

i ❤ to make myself looks more prettier of course

cause when somebody praise me 

i will feel more confident and happy too

of course inner is important too

a pretty girl without a kind heart will be described as a WITCH

who wan others call u a witch

so...just take a balance between inner n outer

remember

~注重内心，但不忽略外表~

 no one will be perfect in this world

but every one can change to be better

don't you think so??

*all above just my own opinion,no against anyone,just my little sharing*

*just ignore if u don't think it's right*

❤ ❤ Thanks for reading..xoxo❤ ❤

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❤♩♪♫♬♭♮♯ Song of the day ❤

Britney Spears - I'm not a girl, not yet a woman

I used to think, I had the answers to everything

But now I know that life doesn't always go my way, yeah

Feels like I'm caught in the middle

That's when I realize

I'm not a girl, not yet a woman

All I need is time, a moment that is mine

While I'm in between

I'm not a girl

There is no need to protect me

It's time that I learn to face up to this on my own

I've seen so much more than you know now

So don't tell me to shut my eyes

I'm not a girl, not yet a woman

All I need is time, a moment that is mine

While I'm in between

I'm not a girl

But if you look at me closely

You will see it in my eyes
This girl will always find her way

I'm not a girl, don't tell me what to believe
Not yet a woman
I'm just trying to find the woman in me, yeah

While I'm in between

I'm not a girl, not yet a woman, no no
All I need is time, a moment that is mine
While I'm in between
I'm not a girl

Ooh, not yet a woman