imma transforming from a lady to a woman
yoohoo~!!
should i felt excited with it??
i don't think so
the process that a lady getting with an age that start with 2* was very 'scary'
maybe u won't think so
but enjoying the transforming process sumtimes too
read a phrase from WeiBo few days ago
【女孩子要记住的事情】
1.喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送。
2.可以淘便宜的衣服，但记得自己的品位比这个价位高。
3.在QQ，手机里删除前男友 的号码，避免神经脆弱的时候主动找他。
4.减肥是为了更美好的人生。要是因为减肥而失去了生活的乐趣，不如放弃。
5.注重内心，但不忽略外表。
and i post one of it on FB and get hot response and like
~喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送~
❤ ❤ my favorite❤ ❤
actually there is a fact that lady/woman always think it's right
"女人用男人钱是天经地义的"
--A woman is perfectly justified to use the money of men--
but i think women should wake up from this
of course sometime i also hope my Bf will gift me these or those
or my dad buy sumthing for me
but sometimes when u really saw what u like or u want
don't u think that they also maybe saw what they like or want
and they maybe save those money just to buy something u like or want
it's unfair right?
i saw some of them maybe did not work to gain what they like and just wait for their Bf/Hubby/Daddy work to buy for them
Don't u think guy also is a human??
They work so hard due to some reason maybe their family or maybe to buy something they ❤
but just cause of 1 word "I LIKE THIS!!I DON'T CARE!!"
then he have to use all his savings to spend on you
don't u think its too cruel??
*of course this situation may different if he volunteer himself to buy it for u*
since i was Form 6
i seldom ask my dad to buy anythg for me
even my hp
i also work n save my own money to buy it myself
2 of my hp that i used before i use my own money to buy it
n even my clothes n skincare products
except tuition fees and sumtimes my dad may give me some pocket money for car fuel fees n others
i oni will ask money from my dad when my bank account really nothing left
during my uni life
i also try never ask for money for 1 year
i just use ptptn and my own savings
cause i know my dad really burden too much for this family
of course he know sumtimes and oso volunteer sum for me e.g Sabah trip
for me
a woman must know how to earn money independently
i remember my uncle told me before
"It's okay if u r big expenser if you know how to earn bac those money that u spent"
my dad is a big expenser
he told me at least my dad knew how to get bac money after he spent
i never forget this and i take my dad as a role model for me
as i listen many excuses that
im still a student!!
but did u think for ur parents n family before??
its ord vy burden to sent u to school
n..did u study every day??
no right?? den y dun use ur weekend or holidays to work??
i can't find any work!!
izzit u cant find any work or u too choosy or it's oni an excuse for u??
i gotta rich Bf!!
izzit ur Bf is ur husband yet??
no..rite??
izzit he dun have his own family??
instead to give u money to spend don't u think its more reasonable that he give what he earn for his own mum??
and what if at the end both of u dun have a happy ending??
but he ord bought an iphone, dslr, jewelery for u??
dont u felt ashamed?
of course sometimes i think to find these excuses for myself too
but
i really felt embarrassing n even now i ord 22
so....
ladies....remember this
~喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送~
~注重内心，但不忽略外表~
every girl will like themselves to be pretty of corse
sometime i heard
“我不爱美的咯”
“我不喜欢打扮的”
every time i heard this
the first word muttering in my heart:"FAKE!!"
ya..maybe some of you dun like to make up
but i vy sure that some of u will buy sum pretty clothes for urself
or maybe put some colors on ur nails
or maybe buy some skin products and do facial
even a guy hope to be handsome
den how about a girl??
Appearance is ur image
reality : Others will judge you from ur appearance during ur first meet
it is true~it is fact!!
every of my frenz know that im vy 'ai mei' haha
maybe influenced by my leng mummy
i ❤ pretty clothes
i ❤ fair n smooth skin
i ❤ put a light make up on my face
i ❤ high heel
i ❤ wear contact lens
i ❤ to make myself looks more prettier of course
cause when somebody praise me
i will feel more confident and happy too
of course inner is important too
a pretty girl without a kind heart will be described as a WITCH
who wan others call u a witch
so...just take a balance between inner n outer
remember
~注重内心，但不忽略外表~
no one will be perfect in this world
but every one can change to be better
don't you think so??
*all above just my own opinion,no against anyone,just my little sharing*
*just ignore if u don't think it's right*
❤ ❤ Thanks for reading..xoxo❤ ❤
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❤♩♪♫♬♭♮♯ Song of the day ❤
Britney Spears - I'm not a girl, not yet a woman
I used to think, I had the answers to everything
But now I know that life doesn't always go my way, yeah
Feels like I'm caught in the middle
That's when I realize
I'm not a girl, not yet a woman
All I need is time, a moment that is mine
While I'm in between
I'm not a girl
There is no need to protect me
It's time that I learn to face up to this on my own
I've seen so much more than you know now
So don't tell me to shut my eyes
I'm not a girl, not yet a woman
All I need is time, a moment that is mine
While I'm in between
I'm not a girl
But if you look at me closely
You will see it in my eyes
This girl will always find her way
I'm not a girl, don't tell me what to believe
Not yet a woman
I'm just trying to find the woman in me, yeah
This girl will always find her way
I'm not a girl, don't tell me what to believe
Not yet a woman
I'm just trying to find the woman in me, yeah
While I'm in between
I'm not a girl, not yet a woman, no no
All I need is time, a moment that is mine
While I'm in between
I'm not a girl
Ooh, not yet a woman